She was interested before but now?

Now she says she doesn't like me more than a friend and im really confused on what the hell happened. She even cancelled the date.

History:

I started talking to her over myspace, I found her profile and thought she looked pretty cool so I added her. I told her I have talked to her in the past before and this really caught her attention. Me and her talked for a bit, we talked about our Jobs, love life and what we do for fun. We asked each other a bunch of questions and such to get to know each other better.

So eventually I asked her for her number and she said she was thinking the same thing. So we exchanged numbers and eventually she ended up calling me.

The phone chat wasn't so bad, although I did have this weird accent that I seriously hated, she said she didn't mind and that she liked it. I asked her if she liked anyone and she said she liked 2 other guys. I asked her if there was anyone else. She said she kinda liked me so far. So yea, we talked about our Jobs, our hatred towards traffic and a bit of our love life and what she does with her day and such.

So yea, we talked on the phone a few times and we actually planned on meeting at a Starbuck for Coffee on Saturday.

Which was like a week away at the time but I didn't mind. Gave me plenty of time to prepared

for some odd reason though, my weird line was acting weird and it took me a few days to get that fix so I had to call her at a different place to get a hold of her over the phone.

One time though, I called her 1 night and she said she couldn't talk because she was at the emergency's. She said it was nothing serious or anything and that it was nothing. She said it was something with her stomach.

So I emailed her about it later on tonight and she said its nothing and that she appericate me checking up on her.

So I called her again the next night and I was tired as hell and she was babysitting, the chat was actually kinda boring, although I was still able to make her laugh, just once though. so yea...her phone died and that was it.

the tension fade.. in the beginning she seemed really interested, but now she has cancelled a date and doesn't sound as enthusiastic

http://www.rottentomatoes.com/vine/s...d...

Read that link and start from the bottom, although I did get a few replies, just ignore them as they don't know the whole story. Start from the bottom and read your way to the top on the first post.

So what the hell happened? why did she change her mind?

She was interested before but now?

It's just what some people do.

Good Luck

She was interested before but now?

She is probably a little nervous about meeting someone from the internet. I did that once and it was a little nerve wracking and I wouldn't do it again.

She was interested before but now?

Cold feet...When it came time to meet, it was not you, your accent or anything else, she never had any intentions of going through with meeting you or anyone. Chances are she has done the very same thing to lots of guys. She may not be as advertised or she fears meeting anyone that she met of the web, who knows, she was just playing and when it came time to cash in the chips, she pulled up stakes. Sorry man, but that is how it looks from this side of the pond.

She was interested before but now?

She had a change of "heart/mind". So what she doesn't or didn't owe you anything. You don't know her personally, all you were was a name on a contact list she chatted with. YOU made the realtionship out to be more than it was. She doesn't deserve being posted on rotten tomatoes, you're just being childish and immature, and obviously she is much better off without you.

She was interested before but now?

are you a writer?

She was interested before but now?

I want you to memorize this: don't waste your time sending emails, posting on myspace or yaking on the phone.

You set up a face-to-face date someplace safe, meet the woman, then try a follow up call in the next week or so, and if she doesn't call back, move on to the next one.

Make sure the meeting is someplace inexpensive if you don't feel like spending a bunch of money on women you only meet once.

The point here is time and money are rare commodities, and you don't need to be wasting it (been there and done that too many times). You need to meet a lot of people to find somebody worth keeping, so the fist thing is going to be meeting them, then getting their phone number, then hopefully a second date.

And just because you eventually find one that wants you, don't leap in: she has to earn your trustl don't give it away too freely or you'll be back here posting a heartbreak story.

She was interested before but now?

maybe she has had some bad elationships in the past and is a bit leary to begin another

She was interested before but now?

Well you said yourself that some of the conversations you had were boring. Maybe she was afraid of not having anything to say to you in public and didn't want to sit in an uncomfortable silence.

She was interested before but now?

How far away from each other do you to live. If it is a distance then maybe that played a part in it. Who really knows stuff like that just happends sometimes for no reason. Besides remember noone really knows who they are talking to on the internet. You can be anyone you really want to be maybe she wasnt truthful to you through your conversation and decided it was easier to bow out then to come clean.

You are probably better off even though it may not feel like it right now.